你是否和我一樣，發覺身邊的親戚和朋友，似乎少了許多。
以往接近過年時，各種聚餐排得滿滿的，而今年，似乎沒聲沒息。
即使是平常日子，電話少了，與大家見面也少了。
也許，大家各忙各的；或者，目前流行“宅生活”，儘量避免出門。
也不盡然如此。再想一想，很多老友和親戚，已經不在了。嗟！大吉利是，他們都還好好的，只是離開了馬來西亞。
去了中國大陸開工廠；王子不做工程師，移民到澳洲開小食檔；阿風離開本地大學，去香港做講師；青蛙去了台灣，開展事業第二春；還有的到了美國、英國，唔，還有去印尼的……。
起初，以為這只是個別現象，逐漸的，旁人也有同樣發現；原來，這不是個別現象，而是社會現象；這不是少數，而是相當大的數目。
外交部早前披露了一個數字，說明這個現象是多麼真實，多麼貼近。
從去年3月到今年9月，已經有30萬大馬人移民他國；其中20萬人是今年1月到8月出走的數目。
累積下來，已經有超過200萬大馬人移民，接近今天印尼外勞在大馬的人口。
不同的是，移居他國的大馬人，多是專業人士、中產階級。
他們有很多出走的理由，追求事業發展，為了孩子前途，尋找個人更大空間……，概括一句：對馬來西亞失望。
50年前，大家說，馬來西亞真好，好過香港，甚至日本。
30年前，大家說，馬來西亞還不錯，比得上韓國、台灣（不提香港和日本了）。
20年前，大家說，馬來西亞還可以，至少超越中國、泰國（不能和台、韓比了）。
10年前，大家說，馬來西亞再差，還不至於像越南、印尼（中國已是不同級別）。
今日，越南和印尼的經濟成長率遙遙領先大馬，社會活力和知識發展也勝過一籌；距離愈來愈近了。
怕甚麼，還有菲律賓和柬埔寨、緬甸。
但是，一位經濟學家最近到菲律賓考察之後，認為再過20年，大馬可以取代菲律賓，出口馬籍女傭到全世界了。
半個世紀以來，馬來西亞是在大宅院裡，用封建方式，分配祖宗家業，消耗社會資源，浪費和逼走人才；不談競爭力，忽略生產力，討厭績效制。
亞洲金融風暴來襲時，大馬把門關起來，以為避過一劫，有人還自我陶醉，自以為是天才策略。
然而，其它國家面對風暴，走出風暴，進行體質改革，跨步向前，登上另一個水平；大馬卻還在原地踏步。
馬來西亞，該醒一醒了。

I wonder you feel the same as me, all the sudden I realized friends and relatives around me seems to get less and less.

Those years when the New Year drew near, all sorts of gathering appointments almost completely filled the diaries, but this year seems so quiet.

Even in normal time, phone calls become less and less, face to face meet up also become much less.

Perhaps, everybody is busy with their own things, or perhaps, nowadays people prefer to stay in.

However, it is not entirely like this, thinking further, actually old friends and relatives are not around any more. God bless, they are still alive and well, they just left the country, Malaysia.

They have gone to China to set factory; ah Wang quit his engineer job and migrated to Australia to set up his little food store business, ah Fong left the local University went to Hong Kong as a lecturer. ‘Frog’ went to
Taiwan to pursue his second career life. Others went to America, England, even Indonesia…

At first, I thought these are individual cases, but gradually, people around me realized the same, these are not individual cases but a general symptoms of our society. they are not small numbers but the pretty big indeed.

Department of Foreign Affairs released the figures earlier, it confirmed the situation is real.

From March 2008 to September 2009, a total of 300,000 Malaysian migrated to other countries, among them 200,000 left between Jan – Aug 2009. (in 8 months)

Cumulatively, there are 2 million Malaysian migrated, this figure is close to the number of Indonesian workers in Malaysia today.

The difference are, those migrated are mostly professional and middle class people.

They have many reasons to leave: pursue career development, for the future of their children, in search of better life and environment… In one sentence, they lost hope of Malaysia.

50 years ago people said: Malaysia is very good, better than Hong Kong and even Japan.

30 years ago people said: Malaysia is not bad, comparable to S. Korea and Taiwan. (No mention of Hong Kong and Japan any more).

20 years ago people said: Malaysia can do la, at least better than China and Thailand (Cannot compare with
Taiwan and Korea lah)

10 years ago people said: No matter how bad Malaysia is, cannot be worse than Vietnam and Indonesia ko-ah. (China is already in a different category).

Today, the economic growth rate of Vietnam and Indonesia already far exceeded Malaysia, Social activity and intellectual development of the country is also better, the gap between us and them is closing up.

Why worry? there are still Philippines, Cambodia and Myanmar behind us.

However, according to an economist who recently surveyed Philippines, he think in 20 years’ time, Malaysia can replace Philippines to become the World exporter of Malaysian maids.

Over half the century, Malaysians live in the big old imperial housing complex, closed up and survive on properties left behind by the ancestor; continue to consume up social resources, wasteful, and drive away
talents; they never talk about competitiveness, totally neglect productivity, and hate meritocracy.

When Asia economic storm hit in 1997, Malaysia closed their doors, thinking we beautifully avoided a disaster, there even think of themselves as genius, being able to handle the situation so well.

However, just look at other countries in our neighborhood, they stand up, face the storm, and walk out of the storm. They overhaul the system, improve the processes and march forward, they moved up to a new level. And Malaysia, still walking on the spot.

Dear Malaysia, it’s time to wake up! We are very very late now!

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太晚睡觉等于自杀（献给爱熬夜的年轻朋友）

沉重的话题： 一个97级的名校高才生，毕业后进微软的，上月死了，只不过25岁的黄金年龄，珍视自己的生命吧，大家。

对了，又听到一个悲伤的消息。广告界的好青年，又挂了一人了。此人是联旭的，是业务还是设计我也搞不清楚。前几天在连续加班后的某晚，回家睡觉后第二天就叫不醒，挂了。

奇怪的是，约二个月前，也是联旭的一位女生业务，也是这样，不过她是离职后第二天，还是第几天，睡一觉就起不来了。医生说是猝死，推测是过劳。总之，这些天九点联旭就全部关灯，大家都不加班了。大家要好好保重身体呢。

那几人之前没有发生任何的迹象：原本一向身体健康，时常运动(打篮球) ，但在近日连续熬夜数晚，经过数日后，突然第二天起床会觉得很疲劳！一闭眼就想睡觉！(跟前一日熬夜的感觉不同)，而且会腰酸背痛，但一到晚上精神又好起来！别以为这是小事！根据中医的看法，是因过劳而造成体内器官阴阳失调，就是体内器官起内讧，互相打架，最后造成器官衰竭而死，所以希望你不是下一个！

晚上9 – 11点，为免疫系统（淋巴）排毒时间，此段时间应安静或听音乐

晚间11 – 凌晨1点，肝的排毒，需在熟睡中进行。

凌晨1 – 3点，胆的排毒，亦同。

凌晨3 – 5点，肺的排毒。此即为何咳嗽的人在这段时间咳得最剧烈， 因排毒动作已走到肺；不应用止咳药，以免抑制废积物的排除。

凌晨5 – 7点，大肠的排毒，应上厕所排便。

早上7 – 9点，小肠大量吸收营养的时段，应吃早餐。疗病者最好早吃，在6点半前，养生者在7点半前， 不吃早餐者应改变习惯，即使拖到9 – 10点吃都比不吃好。

半夜至凌晨4点，为脊椎造血时段，必须熟睡，不宜熬夜。

附：人体24小时使用手册

1∶00 人体进入浅睡阶段，易醒。此时头脑较清楚，熬夜者想睡反而睡不着。

2∶00 绝大多数器官处于一天中工作最慢的状态，肝脏却在紧张工作，生血气为人体排毒。

3∶00 进入深度睡眠阶段，肌肉完全放松。

4∶00 “黎明前的黑暗”时刻，老年人最易发生意外。血压处于一天中最低值，糖尿病病人易出现低血糖，心脑血管患者易发生心梗等。

5∶00 阳气逐渐升华，精神状态饱满。

6∶00 血压开始升高，心跳逐渐加快。高血压患者得吃降压药了。

7∶00 人体免疫力最强。吃完早饭，营养逐渐被人体吸收。

8∶00 各项生理激素分泌旺盛，开始进入工作状态。

9∶00 适合打针、手术、做体检等。此时人体气血活跃，大脑皮层兴奋，痛感降低。

10∶00 工作效率最高。

10∶00 – 11∶00 属于人体的第一个黄金时段。心脏充分发挥其功能，精力充沛，不会感到疲劳。

12∶00 紧张工作一上午后，需要休息。

12∶00 – 13∶00 是最佳”子午觉”时间。不宜疲劳作战，最好躺着休息半小时至一小时。

14∶00 反应迟钝。易有昏昏欲睡之感，人体应激能力降低。

15∶00 午饭营养吸收后逐渐被输送到全身，工作能力开始恢复。

15∶00 – 17∶00 为人体第二个黄金时段。最适宜开会、公关、接待重要客人。

16∶00 血糖开始升高，有虚火者此时表现明显。阳虚、肺结核等患者的脸部最红。

17∶00 工作效率达到午后时间的最高值，也适宜进行体育锻炼。

18∶00 人体敏感度下降，痛觉随之再度降低。

19∶00 最易发生争吵。此时是人体血压波动的晚高峰，人们的情绪最不稳定。

20∶00 人体进入第三个黄金阶段。记忆力最强，大脑反应异常迅速。

20∶00 – 21∶00 适合做作业、阅读、创作、锻炼等。

22∶00 适合梳洗。呼吸开始减慢，体温逐渐下降。最好在十点半泡脚后上床，能很快入睡。

23∶00 阳气微弱，人体功能下降，开始逐渐进入深度睡眠，一天的疲劳开始缓解。

24∶00 气血处于一天中的最低值，除了休息，不宜进行任何活动。

看完请转发给身边你关心的人。

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尽管濒死体验发生的情境，以及亲历该种体验的个人性格都有着巨大的差别，但需要肯定的是，在这些人“濒死体验”的陈述中，存在着不可忽视的相似性－－大体归纳为14条，他们是按照感受出现的先后次序排列的。

U.S. psychologist Dr雷蒙德穆迪study were 150 near-death experience (experienced “clinical death” after the resuscitation of persons) of the case after the death of trying to kick the truth to people.

Despite the near-death experience occurred in situations, as well as the experience of the individual experience of the character have a huge difference, but is certain is that these people in the “near-death experience” in the statement, there is a similarity can not be ignored – general summed up in 14 that they occur in accordance with the feelings of the order.

1.明知死讯：他们亲耳听到医生或是在场的其他人明确宣告自己的死亡。 他会感觉到生理的衰竭到达极限。

1. Knowingly death: They heard at first hand the presence of a doctor or other person a clear declaration of his own death. He will feel that the failure to reach the physiological limit.

2.体验愉悦：“濒死体验”的初期有一种平和安详、令人愉悦的感受。 首先会感到疼痛，但是这种疼痛感一闪而过，随后会发觉自己悬浮在一个黑暗的维度中。 一种从未体验过的最舒服的感觉将他包围。

2. Experience the joy: “near-death experience” in a calm and serene early, it is the feeling of pleasure. First of all, will feel pain, but the pain flash, then found himself suspended in a dark dimension of.Never experienced a most uncomfortable feeling surrounded him.

3.奇怪声音：在“濒死”或者“死亡”的时候奇怪声音飘然而至。 一位年轻女子说，她听到一种类似乐曲的调子，那是一种美妙的曲调。

3. Strange voice: in the “dying” or “death” when the strange floating in the air and to voice. One young woman said she heard a similar tone music, it is a beautiful melody.

4.进入黑洞：有人反映他们感到被突然拉入一个黑暗的空间。 你会开始有所知觉，那就像一个没有空气的圆柱体，感觉上是一个过渡地带，一边是现世，一边是异域。

4. To enter the black hole: they reflect the feeling of being someone suddenly into a dark space. You will begin to be perceived, then there is no air like a cylinder, I feel it is a transitional zone, one side of this life, he is a foreign land.

5.灵魂脱体：发现自己站在了体外的某一处观察自己的躯壳。 一个落水的男人回忆说，他自己脱离了身体，独自处在一个空间中，仿佛自己是一片羽毛。

5. The soul from body: find yourself standing on the in vitro observation of a Department’s own body. Memories of a man who fell into the water, said out of his own body, in a space alone, as if he is a feather.

6.语言受限：他们竭力想告诉他人自身所处的困境，但没有人听到他们的话。 有一名女子说，我试着跟他们说话，但是没人能听到。

6. The language is limited: they would like to tell other people to the plight of their own, but no one heard them. One woman said that I tried to speak with them, but no one can hear.

7.时间消失：脱体状态下，对时间的感受消失了。 有人回忆说，那段时间里，他曾不停地出入自己的肉体。

7. Time to disappear: from physical state, feelings of time gone. It was recalled that during that time, he was kept out of their flesh.

8.感官灵敏：视觉、听觉比之前更加灵敏。 一个男子说，他从未看得如此清楚过，视力水平得到了不可思议的增强。

8. Sensory sensitivity: vision, hearing more sensitive than before. One man said he had never seen such a clear vision of the incredible level of strength.

9.孤独无助：在这之后，会出现强烈的孤立感和孤独感。 一位男子说，他无论怎样努力都无法和别人交流，所以，“我感到非常孤单”。

9. Lonely and helpless: After that, there will be a strong sense of isolation and loneliness. One man said that his efforts, no matter how other people can exchange and, therefore, “I feel very lonely.”

10.他“人”陪伴：这时，周围出现了别的“人”。 这个“人”，要么是来协助他们安然渡到亡者之国，要么是来告诉他们丧钟尚未敲响，得先回去再待一段时间。

10. His “people” with: At this time, around the emergence of other “people.” This “person”, either to help them cross safely to the country of the deceased, or to tell them that have not yet sounded the death knell, then you have to go back for some time.

11.出现亮光：在“濒死体验”最后的时刻，会出现亮光。 这道光具有某种“人性”，非常明确的“人性”。

11. There is light: in the “near-death experience” last time, there will be light. This light has a certain “human” very clear “human.”

12.回望人生：这个时候，当事人会对一生做一次全景式的回顾。 当亲历者用时间短语来描述它时，都是“一幕接着一幕，按事情发生的时间顺序移动的，甚至伴随着画面，当时的一些感觉和情感都得以重新体验”。亲历者

12. Looking back on life: this time, the parties will make a panoramic life review. time when the phrase to describe it, is “a scene and then act, according to chronological sequence of events and movement, and even accompanied by pictures of some of the feelings and emotions have to re-experience.”

13.边界阻隔：在这时，人们遇到一道可以称作“边缘”或者“界限”之类的东西，阻隔你到某个地方去，关于它的形态有多种表述：一摊水、一团烟雾、一扇门、一道旷野中的篱笆，或者是一条线。

13. Border barrier: at this time, it can be encountered, together known as “marginal” or “boundaries” and so on, blocking a place you go to, with regard to the form it has a wide range of expression: pool of water, a smoke, door, fence, along the wilderness or a line.

14.生命归来：如果有幸被救活了，在“濒死体验”进行到某种程度后，人们必须“回来”。 在最开始的时候，许多人都想赶快回到身体中去，但是，随着濒死体验的深入，他开始排斥回到原来的身体，如果遇上了光的存在，这种情绪就更为强烈。

14. Come back to life: If fortunate enough to be saved, and in the “near-death experience” to a certain extent carried out, people must “come back.” In the beginning, many people want to get back to the body, but, with the depth of near-death experience, he began to return to the original physical exclusion, the case of the existence of light, the mood is even more strong.

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Below are four (4) questions and a bonus question. You have to answer them instantly. You can’t take your time, answer all of them immediately. Let’s find out just how clever
you really are.
下列有四個問題及一個加分題，你必須立刻回答，不能花時間慢慢想，讓我們看看你有多聰明。準備好，向下捲！

First Question：第一題
You are participating in a race.. You overtake the second place person. What position are you in?
你參加賽跑，追過第2名，你是第幾名？

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Answer：If you answered that you are first, then you are wrong! If you overtake the second place person, and you take their place, you are second!
解答： 如果你的回答是第1名，你就錯了！你如果追過第2名，你只是取代那人的位置，你是第2名。

To answer the second question, don’t take as much time as you took for the first question. 回答第2 題，你不能使用與回答第1 題相同的時間。

Second Question：第二題
If you are in a race, and you overtake the last person, then you are?
你參加賽跑，你追過最後一名，你是第幾名？

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Answer ：If you answered that you are second to last, then you are wrong again. Tell me, how can you overtake the LAST person?! You’re not having a good time at this! Are you?
解答： 如果你的回答是倒數第2名，你又錯了！告訴我，你怎能追過最後一名？顯然你並未樂在其中！

Very tricky maths! Note: This must be done in your head only. Do NOT use paper and pencil or a calculator. Try it.
很詭異的算術！這只能在腦中盤算。不要使用紙與筆或計算機，試試看。

Third Question：第三題
Take 1000 and add 40 to it. Now add another 1000. Now add 30. Add another 1000. Now add 20. Now add another 1000. now add 10. What is the total?
以 1000加上40，再加1000，再加30 ，再加1000，現在加上20，再加一次1000，現在加上10，總數是什麼？

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Answer ：Did you get 5000? The correct answer is actually 4100. Don’t believe it? Check with your calculator!
解答： 得到5000是嗎？正確答案是4100，不相信，用計算機查證吧！

Today is definitely not your day. Maybe you will get the last question right?
今天對你鐵定諸事不宜，或許最後一題你會對？

Fourth Question：第四題
Mary’s father has five daughters: 1. Nana, 2. Nene, 3. Nini, 4. Nono. What is the name of the fifth daughter?
Mary 的父親有5 個女兒，第1 個女兒Nana ，第2 個女兒Nene ，第3個女兒Nini ，第4 個女兒Nono ，第5 個女兒的名字是什麼？

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Answer ：Nunu? NO! Of course not. Her name is Mary. Read the question again!
解答： 答案是Nunu 嗎？不！絕對不是，她的名字是Mary，請再讀一次問題！
Okay, now the bonus round. You can partially redeem yourself with this one ！
好，現在是加分題。這題可稍稍解救﹝彌補﹞你！

Bonus Question 加分題:
There is a mute person who wants to buy a toothbrush. By imitating the action of brushing one’s teeth he successfully expresses himself to the shopkeeper and the purchase is done. Now if there is a blind man who wishes to buy a pair of sunglasses, how should he express himself?
一個啞巴想買牙刷，他模仿刷牙的動作，成功的向店主表達，也完成了購買。現在如果一個瞎子想買一副太陽眼鏡，他要如何表達？

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Answer ：He just has to open his mouth and ask. He’s blind, not mute – so simple.
解答： 他只要張開嘴問即可。他是瞎子，不是啞巴。就這麼簡單！

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